Have a talk with your spouse about how this is bothering you and come to a solution together.
Surrender and just pick up everything and put it in it’s place.
Give up and let things pile up and hope your spouse will recognize this is not working out.
If all else fails, every day walk through your home, pick up all the spouse stuff and put everything into one big bin. Leave it there. Seriously. Keep doing it even if the bin spills over with stuff. When your spouse wants to know where something is, tell him (her) to check the bin. When the bin becomes unmanageable, throw everything out and start over.
I told you I wasn’t a marriage counselor, so that last idea might be a little extreme.
Until next time…